Showing posts with label Coffee Monday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Coffee Monday. Show all posts

Bad Hair Cut

I had a whole post written out today before I remembered what I wanted to talk about!

CHOPPING IT OFF.
Have you ever had a bad hair cut? I have the worst luck with haircuts and etc. One time it was cut like a little german boy. The next time a lady dyed half of my hair bleach blonde when I asked for an ombre. Then when I asked for it to be cut and colored, I got golden hair and a 12-year old hair cut.
Sometimes my life feels like a bad hair cut. Sometimes things suck and people don't help.
Last week I found myself really upset about my future. To be honest I'm not crazy about the college I go to and looking at my alternative options really stresses me out. These are major, life - altering decisions people. Like how am I supposed to know all of this stuff? Ok, I have a general direction. Well, I have about 5 different general directions. I get frustrated about this stuff because I feel like no one is helping me with this or cares. On top of all of my stressful future stuff, I was angry about my hair cut that costs way too much money and wasn't what I wanted at all. So I looked up a few videos and CUT MY OWN HAIR. That's when I realized, sometimes most times you have to take your own scissors and cut your own damn hair. Thats life too for me. Nothing gets done until I figure it all out, take my own scissors and make it happen. I like my hair.

So yeah. I've got my scissors with me. Watch out world.

Don't get me wrong, I don't have it figured out. I'm not even close to knowing what I want to do next. But, I know I have control and God's got my back so I'm good.



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Coffee Monday: First vs. Second Semester: Freshman Year.


While looking back on my first semester vs. second semester, I see a lot of differences and various things I wish someone would have told me. Though, I did end up figuring it all out through trial and error. This actually resulted in a really easy semester to finish up my first year.

Some background knowledge: During my academic school year at Valley Forge I worked 15 hours a week. I took 16 credits my first semester and 18 credits my second semester. Now mind you, my college is fairly easier than many other universities so my minor adjustments might not be enough for those with a more intense workload and subject matter.

My first semester was tough. I've talked about this before in my post "Finding Joy" a few months ago. There were a few times when I just skipped all of my classes because I was so stressed out and couldn't keep up. Looking back, those were really weird feelings, which turned into really hard days.
-I didn't know how to organize myself or my school work.
-I didn't know time management would be such a big adjustment.
-I couldn't balance socializing with schoolwork very well.


My second semester felt so crazy. Everything was so much easier. I had taken 18 credits (6 classes) and as finals week approaches, I am not stressed at all. I had acknowledged my hardships and did my best to improve those.

I spent a lot of time on ways to become more organized with assignments. I would write them down on note cards and put them on my bulletin board on a weekly basis but that was tedious and I wasn't able to see ahead. Then I moved to creating a calendar from a blank piece of paper every Sunday to help remember my work. I went through so many months of methods until I found the one that stuck.

I started to actually use my planner.
It's actually quite the change when you look at one month to another. The switch between semesters is apparent.

This is how I made my life easier.
I learned how to prioritize, worked really far ahead, and prayed more. Thats it.

The first thing I did at the start of the semester was download all of the syllabi and write down every due date in the entire-month-view in my planner. This was where I could see what was coming up. I'd go into the week-view of my planner and write down everything that was due in more detail and cross these assignments off. This enabled me to see what was ahead and work towards that, while feeling empowered as I crossed assignments off my agenda.
At the beginning of the semester I dedicated Friday night to spend time (hours) in my local Starbucks powering through busy work. By taking quizzes and doing this filler work, I didn't have to worry about due dates and could free my time to work on bigger assignments. I think this was the most beneficial thing I could've ever done.
A senior told me my first semester that the best thing I could do was "jump ahead, don't chase."

I prioritized my work in the very beginning and worked ahead making, not only my academics easier, but my entire life.
It's important to give credit where credit is due. There are always days and nights when I don't think I'll make the deadline. During the entire process of getting my work done and working at a better semester, prayer was in the center.  "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God." Philippians 4:6.
Hope this post can help someone who stumbles upon it. Can't believe my first year of college is almost over! Praise God lol.

Happy Monday.
Enjoy your coffee today.
-Em

Coffee Mondays: Busy!

Hello all!

It's Monday again?

Wowzas I am almost finished this semester. I realize that I have not been consistent with coffee Monday posts, nor have I even been drinking coffee! *Gasp*

So I have been so super busy lately.

During March I...
Went to Seattle
Did a ton of homework
Worked long hours
Invented new games
Visited home
Went to an engagement party
Spent time with old friends
Spent time with new friends
Spent majority of my time with Tom
Got a job for the summer
Looked at apartments with my best friend



Since April I...
Found housing for the summer
Ditched all summer plans
Started from scratch
Signed up for an internship
Explored Phoenixville
Took a walk in Valley Forge National Park
Went shopping
Did more exploring
Took a TON of pictures
Launched my new photography site.

Maybe give it a gander?


Coffee Mondays: Valentines Day!


Wow! I'm reflecting on my Valentine's Day last year, I remember how even though Tom and my date night didn't go as planned, we made the best of some chocolate milk and Mulan.

Earlier in my Valentine's, I had a group date in town with some friends which was such a blast! We played some charades on our smart phones. We constantly had to keep quieting ourselves down so we wouldn't disturb the other customers around us.

After our awesome friends date, I came back to my dorm and got a pizza with Shana, my dorm neighbor. We watched Pride & Prejudice and ate food and chocolate covered strawberries and had fun. It was a really great as a prelude to my date night! The love festivities were everywhere this year!

I did not go into this year having high expectations (I am crazy that way). The week leading up to Valentine's Day, Tom's car broke down and we had just bought tickets for Seattle and blah blah blah. We are so broke it's not even funny.

We were blessed by one of our close friends who was able to make a Valentine's date possible. We ended up going to Iron Hill Brewery and it was amazing!

We were able to laugh our booties off while eating great food. It's relaxed times like that date when neither of us have worries or deadlines and can just enjoy each other's presence when I am reminded how amazing Tom is.

Though I am spoiled every single day, this was the best Valentine's day I've had so far!

xoxo
em.

Coffee Mondays: Finding Joy

Hello all! Welcome to Coffee Mondays on my blog. Every Monday, I'll be dedicating the morning to blog about life and whatever over a nice cup o' joe (or tea). This Monday I am focusing on my journey to joy!

Many people know that Valley Forge was not my first choice school, but it was the one I chose to attend. When I got here in the fall I had a hard time adjusting. Everything was difficult.

Adjusting was difficult.
I had been back from my two-month stay in Uganda for only two weeks before packing up my things again to begin my journey at Valley Forge. It was really hard being thrown into another foreign place with people I didn't know again.

Relationships were difficult.
With Tom, our relationship was based off of long distance and a week on constant interaction. We both did not know how to balance time together, with friends (for him lol I didn't have friends) and of course homework. Of course going to college with my best friend/boyfriend is awesomesauce, but man those first few weeks (months) were really hard.

School was difficult.
I had finished senior year with easy courses and departed straight to Africa for full time ministry. I did not remember how to manage time or be organized or anything really. I was also frustrated at the content of the classes because I wasn't being academically challenged.

After the first month or so I was tired of being miserable. I joined a small group and decided to seek God for joy. After all he was the one who brought me here in the first place. I ended up finding joy in a multitude of places.

Thankful. The first place I started experiencing joy was in my thankfulness. I began to look at positives of my school and thanking God for them. Also, I'd thank God for every little thing and person I'd come in contact with. I really began to appreciate my campus and surroundings more and more. It took a lot of prayer for me to overcome my own mindset and start seeing the good that was in front of me.

Now that it's my second semester I am balancing 18 credits easily and wish I could take more. The whole academically challenged thing hasn't changed. I am relying on God and have decided to be okay with whatever circumstances I am immersed in.

Just something small. Happy Monday!

Proverbs 17:22 
A joyful heart is good medicine,
    but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.



10 Ways To Fight Senioritis

Proverbs 12:27
The lazy do not roast any game, but the diligent feed on the riches of the hunt.

This is a post directed towards myself. Maybe it can help.

It all began at the start of senior year. I had visited my two top colleges and checked out of my first semester. Not to mention I was engulfed in sports drama, working at Wendy's, and an awful academic mix of College English and College Bio.
So writing papers and sitting in a class where everything is going over your head... not my idea of a good time. I ended up getting crappy grades and quit my job so I could focus more on school. Which was really awesome because it gave me so much peace and a lot more time to enjoy myself and my friends/family before I head off for college. By that time, I was done visiting colleges and remembered that high school work is still present and kicked senioritis in the butt. Or so I thought....

As the school year is coming to an end (how did that happen?!?) and the senioritis is creeping in behind me, I find myself thinking more about meatballs than the derivative of sin(x). It's cos(x) by the way. I don't want senioritis to take over so I've been fighting it, and winning for the most part. Here's how:


1. Stop Being Lazy.


Get off your butt, get up, do the dishes, do anything and stop being lazy. Get your work done on time. Don't procrastinate. Stop napping on your desk and participate in class. Quit the after-school-nap session that happens everyday and join a gym. Working out and keeping your body healthy will not only boost motivation, but can start putting you towards healthy habits to fight the freshmen 15.... There's only a month left! Don't give up


2. Don't Obsess About the Future

Stop obsessing over your Pinterest boards for you "college dorm" or even "wedding" (ya crazies) and focus on what is going on right now. Pinterest can be a really useful tool for college and everything really! For me though, when I started pinning on a "college dorm wants" board I got obsessed and so excited I would put off my school work and begin the senioritis-coma. Also, we are not guaranteed tomorrow.

3. Be the Class Pet (and be proud)

Take advantage of the teachers in front of you. They have to have some intelligence to become a teacher and I think you'll be surprised at some things you can learn from them.
Do work outside of class like; watch youtube videos on your subject (Khan Academy is an awesome resource), practice problems, an article, or maybe homework...
Don't sleep through classes. Get your work done.


4. Give Yourself Motivators


For me it's the delicious glazed doughnuts from the coffee shop on the square. Those could get me to do anything. Give yourself a treat if you get a B on that super awful College Bio test. Once I bought myself Doc Martens for completing a 28 page research paper. Trust me it helps....


5. Stay Organized


Seriously this is probably the most helpful thing a person could do during senior year!! A ton of scholarships are coming your way and it's really helpful to write down when they are due. Same with your school assignments! During my first semester I found it helpful to take notes in class on my laptop which helped keep me really focused and organized because I knew everyone could see my screen. Although many people don't have the advantage of a laptop in high school, different tools can help with organization (flashcards, notebooks, calendars, agendas, highlighters). Awhile back I painted my wall with chalkboard paint (can find at lowes or hardware stores) and it comes in handy all of the time. It also looks nice when washed to accent just as a black wall. I made a calendar on my chalkboard wall so that I could put sticky note on when things popped up and take it off if something was canceled. (VERY HANDY)

6. Stay Involved

This is self explanatory. Just because it's senior year and school is almost over, does not mean you can skip out on the groups/clubs you're involved in. 

7. Community Service

Give back to the community. Chances are, the community has done something for you and it's your turn to give back. If you are leaving for school, leave your area better than you found it. Not only will this count for volunteer hours for school, but it will also get your mind off the stresses of the future and continue the quest of focusing on the present. Community service is really something I wish I had been more involved in throughout high school. 


8. Be in the Present

Talk to friends and classmates about the classes you're taking now. You will only see these people for a few more months and if they are anything like my classmates, they are all unique and interesting people in their own way. Even though the future looks so awesome, don't forget that life is happening in front of you now.

9. Take Advantage of Time

Time is a precious thing, especially if you're involved in way too much and work. Practice time management, sometimes it helps to make a schedule if there seems to be too much on your plate. Also do something useful with your time (scholarships). Spend time with friends and family. Limit time on social media.

10. Keep Your Eyes on the Prize

No, not the senior prank, graduation! 

My last day of freshmen year. Bittersweet.