Semester Photo Series


The beginning of the semester has started and I am back on campus after a long break. My break consisted of an amazing time on my family’s 32 acre farm, with our sheep in the fog that was winter. Besides a short trip to Minneapolis for a college graduation, I was in the comfort of my home practically every day. I had gotten used to the simple familiarity of family and home town life. I was also struggling with the loss of two dearly loved uncles while facing a dramatic loss of energy in my everyday life. During these hard times I was anticipating the arrival to school and what this semester would bring for me and my personal growth. All I wanted was to fit back into my routine of busy life to keep my mind off things. Coming into the semester I found myself falling into the path of loneliness I experienced through the entirety of my Freshman year. Everything in me wanted to run from those feelings instead of embrace them. Getting accustomed to life without Tom and the security of my home was difficult. I began reading my bible and trusting God as the new semester was starting and the Lord was speaking to me through his word clearly. I became at peace in my loneliness and now can only see it as an asset with my 18 credits and 15 hour work weeks. I have received my books for the semester and am preparing for the upcoming semester. The beginning is hard, though this past week has gotten much easier as I look ahead towards this short season of distance.

I hope this writing style can be improved throughout the semester.. also, the other person did not want me to do the photo story of them as they are too consumed with life.

Until next time,

Thrift Haul


A few weeks ago I went to the thrift store. It was really fun and relaxing. I used to go thrift shopping here all the time. I got some really great stuff this go round. When I go thrift shopping I go for a purpose. Sometimes it's for a certain item or style other times its for fabric. This time was mainly for sewing purposes. I got a lot of pieces I am going to convert or alter. Honestly, I don't understand how people have pieces in their closet that have been untouched. Having a nice form-fitting garment is the best experience!

I'll start with the shoes!
In my opinion, shoes can make or break an outfit. It is the first thing I go to when planning an outfit. Shoes are the one thing I can draw inspiration from. I feel like I could create a whole other post on the 'shoe first' theory, but for now we will stay here. 


You know those heels in the store that you see and realize you won't have anywhere to wear them, but they have your name on them and you really can't leave the store without them. Yeah they were at the thrift store. Also some brown sandals with cushioned soles. Who doesn't love cushioned soles?! 

Grabbed some great oxfords, unworn with great color and detail. Unfortunately they were too big, so I'm going to try to give them away. If anyone is a size 8-8.5 let me know. :)

And then my favorites! These black covered sandals are the best! They are trendy, comfy, and I can wear them with a ton of things. I'm really happy with this purchase!


As far as clothes go, mostly all of these I will alter. I've been searching for a pink skater skirt like this one for a while and I've finally found it! This skirt will need to be hemmed and taken in (easy peasy). For an alteration like that, I usually use a reference skirt of my own so I know where to cut. 


Then I found this soft green striped shirt. I immediately ripped out the ruffles so I was left with a more simple look.


When I'm shopping in the thrift store, sometimes I am looking for fabric and not just a style of clothing. My original thought for this was to make it into a jumper, but now that I've had it around, I might make it into a summer dress. Possibilities are endless.



A dress that only needs taken in a little.



I got this stripped top and polka dot dress for an inspiration project. I found a pin on Pinterest and thought, that looks easy enough. I'll try it out and see what happens.




Well, that's all from this trip. Until next time,

(Thrift Haul graphic by Katelyn Page)








Bad Hair Cut

I had a whole post written out today before I remembered what I wanted to talk about!

CHOPPING IT OFF.
Have you ever had a bad hair cut? I have the worst luck with haircuts and etc. One time it was cut like a little german boy. The next time a lady dyed half of my hair bleach blonde when I asked for an ombre. Then when I asked for it to be cut and colored, I got golden hair and a 12-year old hair cut.
Sometimes my life feels like a bad hair cut. Sometimes things suck and people don't help.
Last week I found myself really upset about my future. To be honest I'm not crazy about the college I go to and looking at my alternative options really stresses me out. These are major, life - altering decisions people. Like how am I supposed to know all of this stuff? Ok, I have a general direction. Well, I have about 5 different general directions. I get frustrated about this stuff because I feel like no one is helping me with this or cares. On top of all of my stressful future stuff, I was angry about my hair cut that costs way too much money and wasn't what I wanted at all. So I looked up a few videos and CUT MY OWN HAIR. That's when I realized, sometimes most times you have to take your own scissors and cut your own damn hair. Thats life too for me. Nothing gets done until I figure it all out, take my own scissors and make it happen. I like my hair.

So yeah. I've got my scissors with me. Watch out world.

Don't get me wrong, I don't have it figured out. I'm not even close to knowing what I want to do next. But, I know I have control and God's got my back so I'm good.



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Tall Grass

Hello Internet! Long time no post. But I refuse to give up! I refuse to give in! I've had dreams and goals for my blog and I can feel them starting to take place (dances to beat of heart). So yeah I wanted to go back to where I began on this blog with outfits! I followed blogs before that were amazing, but all of the outfits had a price tag equal to my college tuition. That just won't do. I wanted to bring it back to show some online inspo and how I am adapting my wardrobe and using my non-existent budget to make it work. So Wednesday's will just be outfits and everything clothes!



Babydoll dresses are really popular this summer. Unfortunately I am too tall to wear things as dresses. Luckily ripped jeans are trending too so I can get away with these babies!


He didn't give me a chance to smile but it's alright because he smiling enough for the both of us. 



Shirt: Cotton On $5
Pants: American Eagle Jeans (3yrsold)
Shoes: Arizona Jeans Recent Thrift

Keep an eye out for a thrift haul soon! 


Coffee Monday: First vs. Second Semester: Freshman Year.


While looking back on my first semester vs. second semester, I see a lot of differences and various things I wish someone would have told me. Though, I did end up figuring it all out through trial and error. This actually resulted in a really easy semester to finish up my first year.

Some background knowledge: During my academic school year at Valley Forge I worked 15 hours a week. I took 16 credits my first semester and 18 credits my second semester. Now mind you, my college is fairly easier than many other universities so my minor adjustments might not be enough for those with a more intense workload and subject matter.

My first semester was tough. I've talked about this before in my post "Finding Joy" a few months ago. There were a few times when I just skipped all of my classes because I was so stressed out and couldn't keep up. Looking back, those were really weird feelings, which turned into really hard days.
-I didn't know how to organize myself or my school work.
-I didn't know time management would be such a big adjustment.
-I couldn't balance socializing with schoolwork very well.


My second semester felt so crazy. Everything was so much easier. I had taken 18 credits (6 classes) and as finals week approaches, I am not stressed at all. I had acknowledged my hardships and did my best to improve those.

I spent a lot of time on ways to become more organized with assignments. I would write them down on note cards and put them on my bulletin board on a weekly basis but that was tedious and I wasn't able to see ahead. Then I moved to creating a calendar from a blank piece of paper every Sunday to help remember my work. I went through so many months of methods until I found the one that stuck.

I started to actually use my planner.
It's actually quite the change when you look at one month to another. The switch between semesters is apparent.

This is how I made my life easier.
I learned how to prioritize, worked really far ahead, and prayed more. Thats it.

The first thing I did at the start of the semester was download all of the syllabi and write down every due date in the entire-month-view in my planner. This was where I could see what was coming up. I'd go into the week-view of my planner and write down everything that was due in more detail and cross these assignments off. This enabled me to see what was ahead and work towards that, while feeling empowered as I crossed assignments off my agenda.
At the beginning of the semester I dedicated Friday night to spend time (hours) in my local Starbucks powering through busy work. By taking quizzes and doing this filler work, I didn't have to worry about due dates and could free my time to work on bigger assignments. I think this was the most beneficial thing I could've ever done.
A senior told me my first semester that the best thing I could do was "jump ahead, don't chase."

I prioritized my work in the very beginning and worked ahead making, not only my academics easier, but my entire life.
It's important to give credit where credit is due. There are always days and nights when I don't think I'll make the deadline. During the entire process of getting my work done and working at a better semester, prayer was in the center.  "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God." Philippians 4:6.
Hope this post can help someone who stumbles upon it. Can't believe my first year of college is almost over! Praise God lol.

Happy Monday.
Enjoy your coffee today.
-Em